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Review 2/20/2011
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I joined naseeb.com a few years ago to find a soul mate. Instead of finding a soul mate, I ended up being the victim of stalking, harassment and emotional abuse.
I had been on naseeb for five years. I was a paying member. I also had a friend in real life Aatif who had been on naseeb longer than I. In August 2009 Nazish began making journals on naseeb and was also looking for a soul mate. She had everything I was looking for. I even thought it was too good to be true. She talked to me for a month or so. In October 2009 she posted that she had her nikah. Soon afterwards she posted that she wanted to be a matchmaker now. I had no intention of contacting her since she was married now but Aatif suggested I do. During the email exchange in December 2009, instead of talking about matchmaking, she insinuated at getting back together since she had only had her nikah. I wasn't interested.
After that a lot of profiles with names like Ekschange began stalking me. There were a lot of senior members of naseeb who were also making journals encouraging me to contact her. I was confused because pretty much everyone was making such journals. I said I wasn't interested repeatedly but they wouldn't stop. They went completely psychotic and I lost all control over my emotions. Then they changed to bullying, ridicule, scorn, blackmail and threats of lawsuits. I contacted naseeb administration about this but they pretended like nothing was going on. The anonymous profiles and the other senior members continued to threaten me with lawsuits and publishing the information they had collected on me. I left naseeb in July 2010.
After I recovered I began to think about what happened and put the pieces together. I discovered that naseeb employees had hacked my and my family's accounts on other websites. They used that information to set up that scam and then enable her and the others to threaten me with publishing the information they had collected.
For the longest time I could not figure out what married people like my friend Aatif did on a matrimonial website. They are the so-called 'leaders' who along with naseeb administration hack into the singles' accounts and collect information on them without their knowledge, then setup scams like this to get them hooked and finally emotionally abuse, threaten and intimidate them bit by bit with the collected information until the victims have no self-esteem left to talk about what happened and they are emotionally worn out. They run it as a very organized campaign. It's not just all the people on that website that do it but there is a large number of people behind it on facebook that never come on naseeb. What people say and do on naseeb is mostly a scam. The people on naseeb that show interest in you are just stringing you along while they are actually talking to someone else. I can write a whole book on what happened and it took several months for me to recover from the emotional abuse that I suffered during those two months.
Human beings were not meant for text-based emotional interaction. Text is great for exchanging ideas but it's too easy to fake emotions, inflict abuse and do things in text that people would never be able to do in real life especially if the administration is involved. After wasting six years of my life, enduring two months of emotional abuse and a year to recover from it, I can tell you this, if you go to naseeb.com, you do so at your own peril.
P.S. Naseeb employees hacked into my account on this website as well and I had to change the password.
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